Hi and welcome to this blog which is intended to be a thoughtful discussion about the strength of enhancing the soft side of relationships. So often, relationships are scarred by control battles, hostility and arguments with not nearly as much energy put into truly understanding the other person's views and responding in a way that honors the relationship and brings a sense of grace and compassion to the interaction.
As a psychologist, I am frequently amazed at the turn-around that can occur when one shifts from a position of hurt and anger to understanding and compassion. Barriers often decrease. Stale-mates get unblocked. Arguing partners stop and are more tender.
I have written a short article about this which is posted on my website (click here). I hope this blog can facilitate a discussion of the concepts in the article. Feel free to comment on the concepts or add your own thoughts in a productive way.
Thanks for visiting and for your contributions.
Jeff
As a psychologist, I am frequently amazed at the turn-around that can occur when one shifts from a position of hurt and anger to understanding and compassion. Barriers often decrease. Stale-mates get unblocked. Arguing partners stop and are more tender.
I have written a short article about this which is posted on my website (click here). I hope this blog can facilitate a discussion of the concepts in the article. Feel free to comment on the concepts or add your own thoughts in a productive way.
Thanks for visiting and for your contributions.
Jeff
